1. Did you grow up in an open or closed system? Describe a memory that illustrates what it was like in your home.

2. What does each of the following verses say about the importance of disciplining our children. . .

• Proverbs 22:15
• Proverbs 29:12
• Proverbs 29:15
• Proverbs 13:24
• Proverbs 23:14-15
• Hebrews 12:5-11

3. Which of the ideas presented this morning appealed to you most, and why?

• Open System - establish clear boundaries and rules, but with freedom
• Obedience - require first time obedience
• Punishment - discipline both the action and the attitude
• Responsibility - help children take responsibility for the outcome of their choices
• Self-Control - punishment is for the child's benefit, not the parents
• Positive Reinforcement - Affirm actions and attitudes that show your child is making progress

4. What is one thing you want to do differently beginning today?