1. Do you agree with the speaker's assertion that men tend not to analyze/assess themselves and therefore often don't know why they do what they do?

2. Have you ever had that moment of insight where, in a relationship with a friend, your wife or a child, you asked the question: "Why did I do that?" or "Why do I act that way?" What did you learn about yourself?

3. How have you tried to become a real man? What steps have you taken toward true manhood?

4. What would your church and this community look like if the majority of the men were pursuing true manhood in Christ? If you're growing in Biblical manhood, how can you draw other men into the journey?