A child's heart may have become a…	What is this heart looking for? What does it love?	What does the gospel offer? How does Christ meet the real needs of this heart?
_______ _______ Seen in: insecurity, lack of initiative, depression	Approval Validation Attention Support	The gospel says: It's OK if life disappoints me because God will take care of me. (Hebrews 13:5)
______ _______ Seen in: talks too much, insensitivity, selfish, demeaning, arrogance	Happiness Power Admiration Possessions	The gospel says: It's OK that I'm not perfect because God sees me as perfect in Christ. (Romans 3:21-22)
______ _______ Seen in: distant, loner, self-protecting, cold, mean	Protection Truth Justification Approval	The gospel says: It's OK to allow myself to feel because, in the end, God will not let me down. (1 Corinthians 1:8-9)
______ _______ Seen in: hunger, fixation, desperation, drivenness	Pleasure Escape Coping Possessions	The gospel says: It's OK to desire pleasure but you'll only find lasting pleasure in God. (Romans 15:13; 1 Peter 1:8)