1. What does a woman mean when she says, "You don't love me!"? Generally, is that a rational or an emotional statement? Explain your answer.

2. The Big Idea today is, "You have to decide whether you want to be imperfectly happy or perfectly unhappy." Which way do you lean?

3. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 describes what will cause a woman to say, "You love me." Which one do you do really well? Which one do you most need to work on?

4. Which of "Pat's Thoroughly Field-Tested Tips on How To Drive a Woman Away" do you really need to let go of? (logic, work, punctuality, stress, change, harp, control, conditions, criticize, touchy, time, moody, pout, approval, change, fix, perfect). Confess it to your men and your God, and ask for them to pray for you. Then, confess it to your wife and tell her, with God's help, that you want to accept her as she is, that you don't want to end up perfectly unhappy. Make sense?