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Be all God called you to be! FOCUSING WITH JOSHUA 4:6-7 and 21-24 (Explain It!) The pattern: the Lord’s instruction to the leader, (verses 1-3 and 15-16) the leader’s instruction to the people (verses 4-7 and 17) and the people’s actions in carrying out those instructions (verses 8 and 18). In verses 6-7, Joshua provides the rationale for building the memorial. It was leader to leaders. Leadership needs to understand why actions are necessary. In verses 21-24, Joshua explains the memorial, now completed, to the people. The memorial was intended to take the people from the present to the future. It was to be a reminder to future generations. As a ministry leader do you take care to explain what you are doing and why it is necessary? This is particularly important when changing the way “it has always been done.” It may seem clear to you, but it may not be intuitively obvious to the casual observer. Do those working with you understand? Do your men understand? GOD IS AT WORK A man testified to being drawn in to pornography as a boy through exposure to men’s magazines and sexual abuse. He admitted that he knew that it was wrong and consistently prayed for forgiveness. Bondage to pornography eventually cost him his marriage and his relationship with his children. One day a friend, noting his depression, suggested meeting with his pastor. This resulted in weekly breakfasts with the pastor where, he claims, the pastor just listened and prayed. As a result the man was freed from bondage. Just as his pastor did, the man now seeks opportunity to minister to men in the same situation. God is always at work! What is He doing in your life?
Pray for men’s ministry on Thursdays NEWS God is moving in among the Hmong men. Please pray that the district leadership team will be equipped to meet the needs of the leadership teams in local churches. Study: Mature Believers Wanted. According to a Barna survey of more than 1,000 Christians, more than half of all churchgoers can't describe how their church defines a mature believer. An overwhelming 81 percent believe spiritual maturity correlates to "trying hard to follow the rules described in the Bible," and even among born-again Christians (a small subset of the entire group polled), only 30 percent mentioned having a relationship with Jesus as one of the characteristics of spiritual maturity. Other elements included living a moral lifestyle (14 percent), applying the Bible (12 percent) and sharing your faith with others (6 percent). (Read more.)
MINISTRY OF THE MONTH G3 Men’s Ministries at Paradise Alliance Church began in January 2008 with a small group of guys attending Man in the Mirror’s No Man Left Behind seminar in Florida. Attending that seminar helped us come up with our name, G3: Growing Godly Guys, and the purpose of disciples making disciples. The core of our ministry is our Men’s Bible Study on Wednesday nights. Bible study consists of a 30-minute teaching by Tim Bolin, our pastor to men, followed by 45-minute round table small group discussions. Typically on a Wednesday night, 80-100 men attend. We have 16 tables set up with each table discussion facilitated by one of our Allies (round table small group leaders). Events and outreaches we do on an ongoing or annual basis are: Monday Night Football, Clay Shooting Competition, Wilderness Retreat and a Golf Tournament. Also, we have a softball team that participates in our town’s league. Also within G3 is its own mission’s ministry, Alliance Kingdom Builders, which assists people in need “here, there, and everywhere.” Alliance Kingdom Builders purpose is to advance God’s Kingdom throughout our community, country, and worldwide, by providing spiritual and physical assistance for those in need according to God’s Word. Over the past two years, this group has gone to Mexico to build a 3000 sq ft house (1500 sq ft upstairs used as a home for a pastor’s family in Mexico and the 1500 sq ft downstairs used as storage for Azusa Pacific’s Mexico Outreach), a large commercial-sized kitchen, and a bathroom at sites our youth annually minister at during spring break. This year, a team of men have partnered with the Bostons in Paraguay to build a church and also to help a young widow in our community rebuild her fire-damaged home. For more information about G3, contact Tim Bolin at timb@paradisecma.org. What is God doing in your men’s ministry? PERSONAL TOOLKIT Recommended Reading: Letters from a Skeptic by Boyd, Gregory A., and Boyd, Edward K. Colorado Springs: David C. Cook, 2008. You may be a mature believer. But do you still have questions about your faith? Letters from a Skeptic captures the questions many non-believers ask about the Christian faith. The book is a dialog between a serious seeker and “intellectual giant” and his theologian son. The son is a former atheist turned believer himself. The younger Boyd addresses 29 questions such as “Why has Christianity done so much harm?” “Why trust the Gospel accounts?” “Why does God make believing in Him so difficult?” “How could an all-loving God torture people in an eternal hell?” In the processes of responding to his father’s questions, Greg Boyd addresses many of the fundamentals of the faith and results in his father surrendering his life to Christ. LEADERSHIP TOOLKIT Tool: Man Up Your Event. Have you fallen in a rut with your men’s events? …. Are you doing the same things at your events every year? What are some ways that we can MAN UP your men's events? Here are some fun ways to "Man Up" your event (from Men’s Discipleship Update, May 2009):
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