Here's a simple strategy for using the card:
- Ask for the appointment. For either type of leader, invite them to coffee or a brief appointment. Tell them you want to share what's going on with men's discipleship in the church, your vision and your approach.
- Use the quiz as an ice breaker. Ask the person you're meeting with to give their honest opinion, and see what the score is. Discuss the score and its implications. Look at the lowest scores to identify perceived "problem areas."
- Turn the card over and show them the NMLB model. Explain to them that this is designed to address many of the issues brought up in the quiz they just took.
- Use the short explanations of the terms that are printed on the card, and elaborate as necessary. If possible, use specific examples from your church that illustrate the concepts.
- Solicit feedback on the model and its implementation in your church.
- For potential new leaders: if the model and its concepts seem to resonate strongly with them, invite them to your next leadership meeting as an observer. This could be the first step toward a new member of your leadership team.
- For other ministry leaders: make sure to spend time talking about the 'All-Inclusive' concept. Emphasize that every ministry that men are involved in, including theirs, is a vital part of men's discipleship in your church. Ask them how you can support them as they impact their men.


















Visionary, Strategic, and Operational Leadership



By the time you read this, 49 candidates will have ventured to Man in the Mirror's offices in Orlando for face-to-face interviews to become Area Directors. The first 19 Area Directors were commissioned and completed their initial week of training. Ministry Partner Development training, provided in partnership with Cru, will equip them with the tools necessary to begin raising the support necessary to become a full-time Area Director in their region. By this time next year, Area Directors will be building an area-wide Coalition for Men's Discipleship, recruiting pastors, lay leaders and churches to the vision of discipling every man in every church.
Leadership is an oft-studied topic in church, business and educational circles. Whether you are the leader of many, or the leader of one, it is important to continue growing in knowledge and maintain a life of integrity.

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. Philippians 2:3
We are pleased to introduce Roddey Roberts as our new National Ministry Consultant here at Man in the Mirror. Roddey will work alongside Jim Angelakos to support and equip church leaders around the country with expertise and resources from Man in the Mirror. Roddey has extensive experience in the church, as well as in business. He understands what it's like to try and reach men while balancing career and family.
Courageous challenges fathers to stand up and say, "I will!" when it comes to honoring God as a parent. Courageous is now available on both DVD and Blu-ray ... learn more at
Much has been made about the "men problem." You can hear about it on Oprah. You can read about it in Time. Everyone is concerned about it. Many address the consequences of it, yet very few people are doing anything that will change the root of it. No man fails on purpose, yet our society is wrought with the results. And our well-intentioned solutions often don't deal with the root issue. What solution does Pastoring Men offer? Disciple men. The purpose of Pastoring Men is to equip you to effectively reach all of your men. Men are hard to reach. But be assured--if you do, they will change the world.




