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The No Man Left Behind Model Card

Apr 09 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
Weekly Briefing #465

Help your leaders understand your strategy for discipleship
As you use the No Man Left Behind Model to develop a discipleship strategy, you will want to be able to explain the approach to two groups of people: (1) potential new leaders who may join your efforts, and (2) other ministry leaders in the church who are currently reaching men.

Here's a simple strategy for using the card:  
  1. Ask for the appointment. For either type of leader, invite them to coffee or a brief appointment. Tell them you want to share what's going on with men's discipleship in the church, your vision and your approach.
  2. Use the quiz as an ice breaker. Ask the person you're meeting with to give their honest opinion, and see what the score is. Discuss the score and its implications. Look at the lowest scores to identify perceived "problem areas."
  3. Turn the card over and show them the NMLB model. Explain to them that this is designed to address many of the issues brought up in the quiz they just took.
  4. Use the short explanations of the terms that are printed on the card, and elaborate as necessary. If possible, use specific examples from your church that illustrate the concepts.
  5. Solicit feedback on the model and its implementation in your church.
  6. For potential new leaders: if the model and its concepts seem to resonate strongly with them, invite them to your next leadership meeting as an observer. This could be the first step toward a new member of your leadership team.
  7. For other ministry leaders: make sure to spend time talking about the 'All-Inclusive' concept. Emphasize that every ministry that men are involved in, including theirs, is a vital part of men's discipleship in your church. Ask them how you can support them as they impact their men.
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To Have a Single Ambition

Apr 03 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
For holy week, let's have one ambition: to experience the real presence of Jesus. Jesus, this week, holy week, we ask to see your holiness, sacrifice, love, power, and your scrupulous care for our souls in a whole new light. Lord, lead us to the place where we can say, "I desire you more than anything on earth" (Psalm 73:5). "A single day in your courts is better than a thousand anywhere else!" (Psalm 84:5). "You are all I really want in life" (Psalm 142:5). Give us this single-minded ambition. Show us your glory, and show us how to bring you glory. It's going to be a great week!

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The Reach 3 Challenge

Apr 02 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0

The Reach 3 Challenge works for men across the continuum. It encourages men early in their walk to develop intentional relationships with non-Christians. For guys farther along, it helps them create opportunities to share the gospel.

Give out Reach 3 Challenge cards with the following instructions:

  1. Prayerfully identify three men not known to be Christians from your work, neighborhood or recreational activities.
  2. Pray everyday for their salvation, as well as their marriages, relationships, jobs, and other areas of their lives.
  3. Invite each of them to lunch. This is a "no agenda" lunch. You're not trying to sell them something. You just want to get to know them.
  4. Be their friend. Talk to them about their life, their struggles and their triumphs. Allow your relationship with them to develop naturally. Ask how you can pray for them. Check back to see how they are doing.
  5. As appropriate, invite them to a men's activity or church event.
  6. (For more spiritually mature men) Be prepared to show them how the gospel has changed your life. Be ready to share your testimony and a simple overview of what it means to accept and follow Him.
Prepare your men for the Reach 3 Challenge:
  • Encourage a man you meet with regularly to take the Reach 3 Challenge with you. This could be especially powerful for a younger man you are mentoring. The goal is not "converting someone," but to develop a relationship and trust with a non-Christian.
  • In a regular men's Bible Study group, take a meeting to talk about sharing your faith. The story of Phillip and the Ethiopian eunuch is a good passage to use (Acts 8). Distribute the cards along with a testimony prep sheet.
  • Make evangelism a focus of a series of talks in a men's Sunday School class or small group. Use Personalizing the Great Commission or another evangelism training curriculum.
Reach 3 Testimony Worksheet
  1. Begin with an attention-getting sentence.
    Example: One day I realized that my life was completely empty and without
    purpose.
  2. Before I received Christ I lived and thought this way:
    Example: I was living only for myself; my wife and kids were more of a burden than a benefit in my life; success was not bringing fulfillment.
  3. How I received Christ:
    Example: A friend of mine was there for me during a tough time. Over time, he explained his faith in Jesus Christ. The more I learned, the more I realized the truth. I decided to commit myself to following Jesus too.
  4. After I received Christ these changes took place in my life:
    Example: I feel like I have a purpose; I see my family as a great blessing; people tell me they can see a difference in my attitude and priorities.
Adapted from Personalizing the Great Commission: Your Action Plan from Man in the Mirror
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Why Younger Men Need Older Men--The Elephant Story

Mar 30 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
When elephants overcrowded South Africa’s Kruger National Park, the government authorized killing adult elephants and relocating their children to other parks. As the orphaned male elephants became teenagers, they were clueless about what "normal" behavior looked like. When their testosterone levels spiked the orphaned males turned aggressive. In one park they savagely killed 36 rhinos. A park ranger watched as one elephant knocked over a rhino, trampled it, then drove a tusk through its chest. The situation was out of control. Then rangers brought six adult bull elephants into one park. They mentored the younger bulls to see what normal behavior looked like. No more rhinos have been killed since the bigger bulls arrived.

Too many young men today are growing up as "practical" orphans. They are having to "guess" at what normal male behavior looks like. Who will take responsibility for these men--to mentor them in the ways of manhood? Moms can only go so far. It takes a man to teach a man how to be a man. Recently I've been 1-1 mentoring a young man in his 20s. I think I've been getting more out of it than he has.

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Who Mentored Paul?

Mar 30 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0

Today we continue our NEW SERIES in the Man in the Mirror Video Bible Study.....  (link)

SERIES: What Happens When Men Mentor Men


Who Mentored Paul?

Acts 9:1-19, Galatians 1:17-18, Acts 9:19-31, Acts 11:19-30, Galatians 2:1, Acts 12:25-13:2


The apostle Paul, our most revered theologian, was run out of town - twice! He fled for his life and lived in obscurity for 13 years. He probably would've never been heard from again, except that God sent a man to get him. Join us and find out what happened to Paul. And, in the process, find out what can happen to you and through you too. It's going to be a great day!


Warmly in Christ,

 

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Pat Morley 

"For every church to disciple every man"



Who do you know ready 4 a career in men's discipleship?  www.areadirectors.org
My new book: www.ManAliveBook.com
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The Marriage Prayer Challenge

Mar 27 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
The Marriage Prayer Challenge

Weekly Briefing #463 by Patrick Morley

Get the couples in your church to pray for each other every day

  1. Begin praying The Marriage Prayer for your spouse every day.
  2. Show the prayer to the leaders of your couples' or adult ministries. Paint a picture for them of what it would be like if every married person in your church prayed for their spouse every day. Pray together that God would do something great in the lives of your people.
  3. Download and print or purchase pre-printed cards here for every couple in your church. Give them out on a Sunday morning or host a Marriage Prayer Adventure evening for your couples with one of our faculty members from Man in the Mirror.
  4. You can also find posters, bulletin inserts, email headers, flyers, PowerPoint backgrounds, and message outlines to support your emphasis on the website.
  5. If desired, use The Marriage Prayer book with couples' groups or an adult class at the church.
  6. After introducing the concept to your church, ask couples to commit to pray The Marriage Prayer every day for 21 days.
  7. Send an email each week during the three-week adventure reminding couples to pray for their spouse.
  8. Watch God begin to work in the lives of your people. Get testimonies of changed lives. Be sure to share them through stories in the bulletin, short video testimonies in the worship service, or follow-up couples' events.
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Mentoring Will Change Your Life!

Mar 23 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0

An exciting NEW SERIES starts now in the Man in the Mirror Video Bible Study.....  (link)

SERIES: What Happens When Men Mentor Men


Mentoring Will Change Your Life!

1 Samuel 3:1-11, 1 Thessalonians 2:1-12, Titus 2:1-2, 6-8


We were barely seated for breakfast when Marlin blurted out, "I have a mediocre marriage, a mediocre business, and a mediocre relationship with God." Many men, especially younger men, are in chaos. They don't know who they are, what their lives are about, or what to do about it. They need a helping hand. Sure, many of these men don't want help. But most do. And even men not in chaos could use a trusted friend and adviser.

But a lot of mature men feel awkward about the whole concept of mentoring. They don't feel qualified to mentor. They aren't sure what it is, why it's important, what's involved, or how to get started. But knowledge is power! So in this four week series we're going to unravel these questions. By the end you will be empowered to make, and receive, huge investments that can change your life and the lives of other men. Join us and catch the vision to mentor and be mentored. It's going to be a great day!

Warmly in Christ,

 

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Pat Morley 

"For every church to disciple every man"

Who do you know ready 4 a career in men's discipleship?  www.areadirectors.org
My new book: www.ManAliveBook.com
Facebook: www.Facebook.com/PatrickMorleyAuthor
Twitter: www.twitter.com/@patrickmorley
Email: patrickmorley@maninthemirror.org

 

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Lord, I Want To Live An Awestruck Life

Mar 22 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
What would it take to leave everything and follow Jesus? "Now go out deeper, & let down your nets for a catch" A carpenter tells a fisherman how to catch fish. But Peter didn't question Jesus. He simply obeyed. And God revealed His power with enough fish to almost sink two boats! Peter was awestruck, and his partners were amazed. By this they were inspired to leave everything & follow Jesus. Jesus asks us, "What do you want me to do for you?" Will you pray with me? Lord, I want to live an awestruck life! Every day I want to experience your love, transcendence, awe, & communion. Having tasted this, nothing less will ever satisfy. Awestruck, I abandon everything that keeps me fettered to this world and I follow you. Amen. (Luke 5:1-11)

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The Power to Live as You Wish

Mar 21 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
Living as a disciple of Jesus is simple. First, take in & believe how deeply God loves you. Dwell on it. Second, respond to His great love that makes us alive with Christ by humbling ourselves in faith & repentance. Third, lead a fully surrendered life of obedience that includes abiding in Jesus (John 8:31-32), neighbor love (John 13:34-35), and bearing much fruit (John 15:8). Simple, right? But if it's so simple why is it so hard? The problem is that our discipleship is fiercely contested. "Your enemy, the devil, prowls around like a lion looking for someone to devour!" Here's a conspiracy theory that's actually true: The world, the flesh, & the devil want "to steal & kill & destroy" you. The solution? It's easy. Every day renew yourself in the gospel. Every day review these three steps. Like a recharged battery, you will have fresh power to live as you wish.

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What Could 50,000 Pastors Do?

Mar 20 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
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Written by Patrick Morley
Tuesday, March 20 2012 08:13

NOTE: Men, if you are not a pastor please read this anyway, then forward to your pastor and any others pastors you know. Thanks!


Dear Pastor...


Thank you for your faithful work for Christ. I have a special affection for pastors. That's because when I wrote The Man in the Mirror in 1989, nobody bought it! We had a warehouse full of unsold books. On a hopeful whim, the publisher offered pastors a free copy of the book. Seven thousand pastors took the offer, talked about it, and then the book took off.


That led me to take early retirement from business in 1991 to answer God's call to start Man in the Mirror and finish seminary. Our vision is "for every church to disciple every man." Our mission is "to help churches more effectively disciple men." We've worked with tens of thousands of churches to impact over 10,000,000 men.


So, as you can see, I have good reasons to love pastors! If it wasn't for pastors, I'd still be developing office buildings that, let's face it, nobody really needs right now.


Today I want to discuss an urgent problem that is screaming for an immediate solution.


The "Men Problem"

 

The vast majority of men in America are in trouble. I would estimate that 90% of men today lead lukewarm, stagnant, often defeated lives--and they hate it. The collateral damage is staggering. This email from a friend about sums it up,


"My daughter stopped in on her daughter's class today (my granddaughter). She saw the teacher sitting in silence with a stunned look on her face. The teacher explained that she asked the class to talk about what they wanted for Christmas.


"These eight-year-olds didn't mention video games, dolls, toys, clothes, or a trip to Disney World. Instead, their answers went like this: "I hope my parents don't get a divorce." "I want my daddy to come back home." "I want to see my mommy smile. Maybe if daddy came back she would smile again." "I want our family back together again." "I want my parents to stop yelling at each other."


"No wonder this teacher was stunned and perplexed. These were eight year old children in Queens, New York. They didn't want gifts for themselves. They wanted a family with a mommy and daddy that love each other."


As surprised as that teacher was, I know this comes as no surprise to you. America faces a host of problems, but none is more pervasive than the well-documented "men problem." It is one of the most talked about yet least acted upon problems of our time. You would think more would be happening by accident! There's a lot of darkness surrounding this problem.

The Need


America desperately needs another "wholesale" spiritual revival and awakening--like the ones led by Jonathan Edwards, Charles Finney, or the Businessmen's Revival triggered by Jeremiah Lanphier. Could that happen again? Obviously, only God can orchestrate an awakening. On the other hand, God rewards hard work and 2 Chronicles 7:14-style prayer. So what can we do?

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"Give me Scotland or I die." John Knox

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There are about 500,000 pastors in America. Many of you have already made men's discipleship a high priority. What if we could increase that number to 50,000 pastors? What if God touched 50,000 pastors with the passion to say, "LORD, give me my men or I die." What might God do if just 10% of our pastors made men's discipleship a high priority? Would a "tithe" of our pastors be enough? We believe 50,000 pastors would change the world.


In ten years, I don't want to look back and say, "I wish I would have done more," or, "If only I had tried a little harder." I know you feel the same way. Do you know of any other professionals who have the potential to help men become godly men, husbands, and fathers? As far as I can tell, unless more pastors take up this cause--and soon--America will continue to see our moral and spiritual foundations crumble. We've talked about it long enough. The time for talking is over.


The Vision


Here's the vision...


First, we "tithe" the men of our nation to God. There are about 100,000,000 men in America. A tithe of our men would be 10,000,000 men. The goal is "10,000,000 men to lead powerful lives transformed by Christ by 2020." LORD, give us back our men!


Second, we "tithe" our problems to God. If 10% of the men in America are transformed, wouldn't we expect to see a corresponding change in culture? The goal between now and 2020 is to see a 10% reduction in divorces, unwed mothers, abortions, fatherless homes, high school dropouts, pornography use, sex sins, prison populations, domestic abuse, poverty, racism, and so on--a 10% reduction wherever the sting of the lack of the gospel is felt.


Third, we "tithe" 50,000 pastors to intentionally disciple "all" their men to be godly men, husbands, and fathers. Use the No Man Left Behind Model and The Journey to Biblical Manhood to disciple all your men over time, right where they are, in ways that connect to their values. Churches using No Man Left Behind experience 48% growth in the number of men attending and 84% growth in the number of men in discipleship in 2 ½ years on average. We will teach you how. Email me at patrickmorley@maninthemirror.org. Explain your situation and I'll have someone contact you--no charge, no pressure.


The Plan

 

When I was on the Board of Campus Crusade for Christ (Cru), I asked Bill Bright, "Why don't we offer the Lay Institute for Evangelism anymore?" He said, "We don't have a leader. Everything boils down to leadership." Man in the Mirror is willing to provide organization and leadership to a pastor's movement that reaches and disciples men, or we will support any other leaders God raises up.


Here are several steps you can take:

  • Agree in prayer to "tithe" the men of America to God. Preach it.
  • Agree in prayer to "tithe" our problems to God. Preach it.
  • Ask God to raise up a "tithe" of 50,000 pastors unwilling to be satisfied with anything less than wholesale spiritual revival and awakening--starting with their men.

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"If you do not long to see the conversion of your hearers. . .you are not likely  to see much success. . . . But, let all who preach for Christ and men's salvation be unsatisfied until they have the thing they preach for."

Richard Baxter, 1656

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  • Take immediate steps to intentionally disciple "all" the men in your church. We can show you how.
  • Win your elders and/or deacons to the cause of men's discipleship.
  • Go public with your commitment to disciple men as a high priority.
  • Send me an email declaring your commitment to patrickmorley@maninthemirror.org and we'll figure out how to start a registry.
  • Include a "men's track" at every pastor's conference.

How Can We Serve You?


We will support you in any way we can. For example....

  • Invite someone from our leadership team to come and speak to your pastor's conference.
  • Explore the "Get Trained" section of www.maninthemirror.org. We'll show you the state-of-the-art concepts for men's discipleship in the No Man Left Behind Model.
  • Receive a COMPLIMENTARY copy of Pastoring Men while supplies last. Send your ground address to patrickmorley@maninthemirror.org. Put "Pastoring Men book" in the subject line.
  • Man in the Mirror is hiring 330 full-time Area Directors to help churches more effectively disciple men--one for every 1,000 churches. Consider or refer a man to become an Area Director at www.areadirectors.org.
  • Get your men into Man Alive small groups. Receive a COMPLIMENTARY review copy of Man Alive while supplies last. Send your ground address to patrickmorley@maninthemirror.org. Put "Man Alive book" in the subject line. Read the first chapter and watch the 75-second video trailer of me driving my race car at www.ManAliveBook.com.
  • Enroll your church in The Journey to Biblical Manhood, a flexible yet comprehensive process to disciple all your men over time. The Journey is launching this spring; to find out more information, email JBM@maninthemirror.org.

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"Make no little plans. They have no magic to stir men's blood." Daniel Burnham, on devising Chicago's Plan, 1909.

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We can do this. I do not think it's histrionic or melodramatic to say that the future of our civilization is at stake--it's already too late to say the future of "our way of life." We cannot, we must not and, by God's grace we will not fail. Let's put Dr. Phil out of business!

 

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God doesn't mumble, so let's get humble.

Mar 19 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
God doesn't mumble. He bombards us with visual cues in His "works"--the beauty of nature, people, and what people can do. He speaks oh so plainly in His "Word." The "whisper" of His Spirit gently reminds us of everything Jesus said and teaches us all things. The "witness" of other believers testifies to the transforming power of the gospel. So don't say that God is silent...not ever! The heavens declare His glory! Rather, say that we are conflicted between what we want to hear and what He is actually saying. God doesn't mumble, so let's get humble.

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Barnabas Lunch Appointments (BLA's)

Mar 19 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0

Written by Patrick Morley

The ministry of "hanging out" is the essence of 1-1 discipleship.

Pastor Jeff "Coach K" Kisiah

A Barnabas Lunch Appointment is an opportunity for you as a leader to intentionally spend time with men in a one-on-one interaction. The goal of these meetings is to provide a safe environment where they can freely "raise the window shade."

Here's how to use this strategy to increase your impact on men's lives:

  1. Choose one day a week (or more) and reserve your lunch time for your Barnabas Luncheon Appointment.
  2. Make a list of men you would like to target. For a pastor, it may be every man in the church. For a lay leader, it may be men in your Sunday School class or small group.
  3. Send emails or call and reserve a lunch appointment on your BLA day. Over time, you will find men contacting you for the opportunity.
  4. Be ready with some questions or topics to guide the discussion forward. You don't want to fill your whole time with surface matters. Take advantage and talk about real life issues. Here are a few suggestions:
    • For a man who needs Christ--What brings you fulfillment in life?
    • For a cultural Christian--Some guys just hit their spiritual "time clock" on Sunday morning. How has Jesus impacted the rest of your life?
    • For all types of men--Do you have some "foxhole friends" and what impact are they having on your spiritual journey?
  5. Close the time together in a private location with prayerful support. If you can, always meet at the same location and choose a spot outside to pray--perhaps under a specific tree. As you continue to meet the men, that will become a special place for you and the men you are discipling. In my personal times of intercession, I often pray for God to provide three things in a man's life... 
    • Rock--to stand on
    • Brook--to drink from
    • Tree--to be shaded by

Keep a journal of your meetings both to track a man's progress on his spiritual journey and to see what God is doing over time. I use a spreadsheet like this one. It's useful as a prayer guide, ministry review, record for your next BLA, and reminder of God's hand in these men's lives.

Spreadsheet example

Here are some ministry objectives for this weekly "BLA Tour:"

  • Intentionality--Men need to see this principle put into practice regularly!
  • Accessibility--Move beyond the standard group interaction to these 1-1 times
  • Coachability--Discern where a man is on the Journey to Biblical Manhood
  • Sustainability--Strive to help "rekindle the flame" in a man's spiritual life
Here is some feedback I have received from BLA attendees:

"I've really appreciated the time at our BLAs...whether talking about personal issues, family issues or ministry concerns, it's a great experience. I also appreciate the fact that you are willing to share some of what's happening in your own life. You're not just a pastor that is seen only on Sundays...that's encouraging!" -- Mike, police detective

"These gatherings have allowed for my 'window shade' to truly be raised in order to reveal who I really am. I have found that building trust (which is achieved in this 1-1 venue) has allowed me to share more honestly, show my vulnerability, and even exposing my weaknesses. I believe it to be one of the most "breakthrough" tools in your MVP ministry, yet probably the most simple!"
-- Ellis, graphic designer

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Who Are You?

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The Big Idea: Because I am a Stranger and Alien, I will __________________ to the glory of God.

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about why everything seems so hard. There are very few things in life that are easy, and often it seems like we face direct opposition. The Bible actually has some great answers to this problem. One of them comes when we remember who we are and where we are.

In this message we seek to understand our true identity and live it out in a mixed-up world.

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Are You A Peacemaker?

Mar 15 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men. Romans 12:18 (NASB).

Key scripture from today's Equipping the Man in the Mirror.

Discussion Questions: What is your typical response when you are challenged? Are you a peacemaker or do you tend to magnify conflicts? Is there a specific conflict that you need to work towards resolving? What should your first step be?

Equipping the Man in the Mirror, quarterly devotional magazine provides you with short daily devotionals, daily Bible readings, ideas to use with small groups, encouraging articles and insightful interviews with men’s ministry leaders.

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Seek a Moment of Humility Every Day

Mar 14 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
There is one thing every true believer longs for each day. That's to be so overwhelmed by the real presence of Almighty God that we feel His life pulsating within us. Begin each day by telling God how much you need Him, how much you love Him, how much you long for His touch. Invite the Holy Spirit to fill you. Ask Him to speak to your heart, then pensively read His Word. Keep seeking until you experience "a moment of humility" in which you are suddenly overwhelmed by His power & presence. It may come as joy that slowly swells, a deep conviction of sin that hurls you to the floor, a holy passion to serve Him with all your might, or feeling transported into the spiritual realms. You may tingle. Your breathing may be labored. You may feel moisture in your eyes. It is a moment of transcendence, awe, & communion. To not experience God is our choice, not His. God keeps an open door policy.

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Acceptability vs. Accountability

Mar 12 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0
A Look in the Mirror #461 - Acceptability vs. Accountability

"Simply let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one." --Matthew 5:37


Help your men move from acceptability to accountability. Many groups have men set goals, fail to meet them, come up with an excuse, and then receive reaffirming pats on the back and assurances that "you'll do better next time." 

Instead, inject some consequences into the process. Here's how it works:
  1. Set concrete goals. Instead of saying, "Read my Bible more," say, "Read the Bible five days each week by following the XYZ Bible Reading Plan."
  2. Set goals that are achievable. If you don't exercise at all, don't set a goal of going to the gym 5 days a week for 90 minutes each time.
  3. A goal may also be something you want to stop doing. For instance, working too many hours or losing your temper with your kids. But it still needs to be concrete and measurable.
  4. Put a definitive deadline on the goal - when must it be accomplished by?
  5. What is the value of the goal? If your goal is to watch less TV, and you decide to cancel your cable, what is the value of that? And here's the key to making it "real"...
  6. Set a penalty for not achieving the goal. Make it painful and meaningful. It could be washing your accountability partner's car or giving $100 to charity.

For accountability partners, it is essential that you don't let your brother off the hook if he does not achieve his goals. He's a big boy. He made his own goals. He set the deadline and penalty. He can handle the consequences!

Below is a sample page from a Christian Roundtable Group to give you an idea of how to record your goals, deadlines, values and penalties.  as well as spark conversations on the key areas of a man's life. (You can download a properly formatted version here.)

Round Table Group Accountability


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The 10 Questions That Trouble Every Thinking Man DVD Series

Mar 07 Posted by MIM Web Team in The Field Network 0
Do you wonder if there is more to this life?  Why are there so many complex issues that a man must face?  This comprehensive series covers some of the most challenging areas men face.  Pat Morley teaches this great study and discusses the following life changing topics:

  • What Happens When I Die?
  • What Are The Problems That Christianity Solves?
  • Why Do I Do The Things I Do?
  • What Is The Key To Peace And Happiness?
  • Why Does God Allow Suffering?
  • How Can I Be A Better Man, Husband, And Father?
  • How Can I Lead A More Balanced Life?
  • What Is True Success?
  • What's It All About?
  • Who Am I? Why Am I Here?
  • What Is My Purpose?

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Men's Discipleship Update: March 2012

Mar 06 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0

March 2012

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"So be strong and take courage, all you who put your hope in the Lord." 
-Psalm 31:24
::IN THIS ISSUE::

Visionary, Strategic and Operational Leadership | Man Alive |Area Directors Report | Resource Spotlight: Pastoring Men| MIM Welcomes Roddey Roberts | Super Bowl Outreach Success | Courageous Available on DVD | Ministry Spotlight: Rough Cut Men | Ineffective Leaders | Ministry Spotlight: FutureLead | Resource Spotlight: The Case for Christ | Leader Profile | Be Our Fan | Man Code | Calendar | Prayer Team

leadingVisionary, Strategic, and Operational Leadership

The right leadership at the right time


Man Leading and Running

Everything boils down to leadership. To successfully implement an all-inclusive men's discipleship ministry (or for that matter any worthwhile idea) requires three kinds of leadership: visionary, strategic, and operational. Without the right kind of leadership at the right time, it's unlikely you will be able to sustain a men's discipleship ministry in your church.


Most leaders will be a little of each, but usually one tendency dominates. And just as a chameleon changes colors, every leader adapts to the situation at hand based upon where they find themselves on the continuum in Figure 1. Still, as a leader you will have a primary or default mode to which you naturally migrate. Once you know your basic tendency, you can save a lot of time and heartache by not trying to be somebody you're not. You also will know the other kinds of leadership you need to recruit. Read more.

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New Book from Pat Morley


Man Alive

You Don't Have to Settle. Over the last four decades, Pat Morley has met one-on-one with thousands of men. Most of them know that Jesus promised "a rich and satisfying life" (John 10:10), but too many are confused about what that looks like. In fact, it is estimated that 90 percent of Christian men lead lukewarm, stagnant, defeated lives--and they hate it. Pat discusses seven different needs men have, and how they can hold a man back from reaching his spiritual potential. There are great resources to help you use the book as an outreach tool or in a small group setting as well.


Becoming a Man Alive is a short booklet that introduces the issues from the book and invites men to go deeper. And the Man Alive Small Group DVD provides a short video vignette to make your small group discussions richer.


You can become the man God created you to be. You can experience a powerful life transformed by Christ. Click here for information and to order the book, booklet and DVDs today!


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Start Planning Now to Bring Visitors Back

Case for Christ


Church signs have started popping up around the country with a similar saying: "Open every Sunday from Christmas to Easter." Of course, churches are trying to use humor to remind people that they can go to church between Christmas and Easter, as opposed to only on Christmas and Easter. Many churches swell with CEO's on those holidays (Christmas & Easter Only), who then go back to their normal pattern of life that gives a nod to God and prayer, but does not revolve around a relationship with Him.


Now is the time to start preparing for those who will "drop by" church on Easter Sunday. You can put a copy of one of the best-selling and most effective apologetic books in recent times, Lee Strobel's The Case for Christ for less than $2 a person. A seasoned journalist, Strobel chases down the biggest story in history. Is Jesus the divine Son of God? What reason is there to believe that he is?  The legally trained investigative reporter examines the claims of Christ, by retracing his own spiritual journey, reaching the hard-won yet satisfying verdict that Jesus is God's unique Son. Written in the style of a blockbuster investigative report, The Case for Christ consults a dozen authorities on Jesus.

This hard-hitting book is a riveting quest for the truth about history's most compelling figure. Many that take it home from an Easter or Holy Week service will be compelled to come back and find out more about Him - well before Christmas rolls around.


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Take the Next StepBy the time you read this, 49 candidates will have ventured to Man in the Mirror's offices in Orlando for face-to-face interviews to become Area Directors. The first 19 Area Directors were commissioned and completed their initial week of training. Ministry Partner Development training, provided in partnership with Cru, will equip them with the tools necessary to begin raising the support necessary to become a full-time Area Director in their region. By this time next year, Area Directors will be building an area-wide Coalition for Men's Discipleship, recruiting pastors, lay leaders and churches to the vision of discipling every man in every church.


What about you? Is God calling you to the vocation of men's discipleship? We are looking for 330 passionate, committed followers of Christ who are called to serve pastors and train leaders so that the men in their churches can be transformed. Go to www.mimareadirectors.org to watch a video about becoming an Area Director, and to read the job description, frequently asked questions, and lots more information about becoming a Man in the Mirror Area Director.

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Leadership


Mount RushmoreLeadership is an oft-studied topic in church, business and educational circles. Whether you are the leader of many, or the leader of one, it is important to continue growing in knowledge and maintain a life of integrity.

 

This edition of the Men's Discipleship Update is focused on leadership. To give you some additional information for you to study in depth, check out the following resources. Find a list of great leadership books here. See what Harvard Business School says about leadership here. Check out the leadership journals from Regent University.
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"Where there is no vision, the people perish."

--Proverbs 29:18


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The Super Bowl may be over for this year, but there are many more opportunities to reach men with the gospel through sporting events.


Jason Ellerbeck shows you practical and strategic ways to make a Super Bowl event a success to share the gospel -- these are great ideas for other game broadcasts for evangelism outreaches, or a way to kick-off your ministry to men. Here is part of what he has to say in his article:


...high-quality resources are the way to go. Keeping the Super Bowl vibe and experience going are important.

One resource I'd recommend is from Sports Spectrum, the top Christian sports magazine in the country. They developed a Super Bowl halftime video every year called "Power to Win." A long-time tradition, Power to Win helps the lost see Christ in a new way and provides great encouragement and hope to those who have been walking with Christ for decades. Read the rest of the article here.

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Rough Cut Men


rough cut men logoRough Cut Men is a catalytic men's movie experience which utilizes Hollywood action movie clips, relevant men's issues and Biblical truth to engage men in authentic and transparent relationships.  With a laser focus, Rough Cut Men aids men's ministry leaders and Christian organizations alike in creating a more personal and relationship-centered ministry to men.

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FutureLead


FutureLead logoFutureLead is a catalytic ministry that mobilizes, motivates and equips men to live and lead On Mission for Christ.


FutureLead is passionate about raising up a spiritual revolution among men. Men whose spiritual passion has been ignited or reignited in such a way as to define and clarify their purpose, expand their vision and equip them to live as radical revolutionaries On Mission for Jesus Christ.


Think of what God will do in homes, churches, communities, corporations and governments when a movement of godly men and leaders is set on fire by God. Leading today, changing tomorrow by influencing, infiltrating and taking back what the enemy has stolen.


To learn more visit www.futurelead.org.

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. --Martin Luther King, Jr.

ineffectiveHow to Be an Ineffective Leader
from Leadership Journal

In this article Steven James gives seven habits to ensure your ineffectiveness as a leader. Aim low, go it alone, wait until the last minute...avoid these pitfalls at all costs. One of the habits is "don't plan ahead." He writes, "Don't fall into the trap of writing down your goals and objectives, or even worse, handcuffing yourself to specific times when you're supposed to feel obligated to do them. Instead, respond to things as they come up. Put off big projects until you have large chunks of uninterrupted time to accomplish them, or when you feel inspired. Then try to complete the task with one herculean effort." Read the full article here.
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Excerpted from Equipping the Man in the Mirror
equipping jan 2012Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. Philippians 2:3

When Jesus tells us to love one another, what is He really asking us to do? We find a great definition of love in Philippians 2:3: "In humility consider others better than yourselves."

Love actively works for someone else's good rather than its own. When you love someone, you feel naturally concerned for what they want and what seems best for them. Your personal interests recede to the background as you promote the interests of another. As a freshman in college, David woke up every morning and asked himself, "Self, what do you want to do today?" When he met Ruthie during his sophomore year, that all changed. Instead of waking up and saying, "What do I want to do today?" he asked, "I wonder what Ruthie is going to do today? I wonder what we could do together." He went from being selfish to being "otherish."

Model "otherishness" to your children. Show them by your own actions that love cares about the welfare of others; that it focuses on the other person instead of oneself. Find specific ways to meet needs in your neighborhood, church, community, and the world.

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Roddey RobertsWe are pleased to introduce Roddey Roberts as our new National Ministry Consultant here at Man in the Mirror. Roddey will work alongside Jim Angelakos to support and equip church leaders around the country with expertise and resources from Man in the Mirror. Roddey has extensive experience in the church, as well as in business. He understands what it's like to try and reach men while balancing career and family.


Roddy says, "I'm delighted to be working with church leaders at Man in the Mirror. There is great excitement about the future as I join the challenge and adventure of helping to equip churches to reach and disciple men."


Please join us in welcoming Roddey to the Man in the Mirror family! You can reach Roddey Roberts at 407-472-2110, or Jim Angelakos at 407-472-2139.

yourealeaderYou're a Leader!

by Pat Morley


No one ever told me, "You're a leader!" Yet as I became a man, I was leading everywhere. But because no one had ever "released" or "blessed" me as a leader, I was well in my mid 40s before I started to get comfortable with people calling me a leader. Before then, I always deflected it.


I started telling certain men, "You're a leader!" The responses have been exhilarating. In every case you can feel their joy, recognition, and hope. In many cases you can also feel their discomfort. That's when I get to tell them my story. We commiserate. But by the time we're finished, they feel like they have been "acknowledged," "released," and "commissioned" to go and be a leader for the glory of God.

How about you? Have you received the blessing, "You're a leader!"?


It has always been that in our darkest hours unexpected leaders rise up. These leaders speak with a clarity of vision that galvanizes our resolve to bring about social change. These often previously obscure leaders tap into the dissonance we feel. They articulate a compelling, resonant message. They often live difficult lives that prepare them "for such a time as this." They are not necessarily the most impressive looking, the most articulate, the brightest, or the most successful. Yet, these servant leaders willingly sacrifice their lives for the greater good.


It is a dark hour for the family. There exists an urgent need for leaders who will see the crisis, and realize they have been prepared "for such a time as this." If this makes your heart soar and ache, then let me be the one to bless you: "You're a leader!"


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"Do you wish to rise? Begin by descending. You plan a tower that will pierce the clouds? Lay first the foundation of humility."

-- St. Augustine

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Courageous is a powerful movie that not only is entertaining, it also touches your heart and challenges you to honor God as a parent. And now, Courageous is available on DVD and Blu-ray. Learn more at CourageoustheMovie.com. What impact did Courageous have on you and your family?

When you saw Courageous in theaters, you were able to experience all of the impact of this powerful film on the big screen. Now that it's available on DVD, you can enjoy the movie plus more than 2 hours of special features! Learn more at CourageoustheMovie.com.

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"The key to successful leadership today is influence, not authority."--Kenneth Blanchard

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pastoringmencoverMuch has been made about the "men problem." You can hear about it on Oprah. You can read about it in Time. Everyone is concerned about it. Many address the consequences of it, yet very few people are doing anything that will change the root of it. No man fails on purpose, yet our society is wrought with the results. And our well-intentioned solutions often don't deal with the root issue. What solution does Pastoring Men offer? Disciple men. The purpose of Pastoring Men is to equip you to effectively reach all of your men. Men are hard to reach. But be assured--if you do, they will change the world. Order here.

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The Secret

Mar 02 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0

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The "Secret"

Ephesians 5:21-33


Ninety percent of all people say they will get married-a full 75% of divorced people remarry within four years. That makes marriage about the most popular thing to do in the world-right behind sneaking chocolate and running red lights!

I've been married to Patsy for 39 years and I love her more today than the day we married. I mentioned this to a single female lab tech earlier this week and she wanted to know the "secret." Join us as I share what I told her-and more! Include the woman you love. It's going to be a great day!

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Encouraging Your Men to Pray for Your Pastor

Feb 27 Posted by MIM Web Team in Man in the Mirror Blog 0

Encouraging Your Men to Pray for Your Pastor by Patrick Morley

Weekly Briefing 459 

 February 27, 2012

NOTE: At FUEL, Man in the Mirror's 2012 Leadership Summit, we presented eight tools that leaders can use with their men. Over eight weeks we're going to present them to you, too. Click here to download the PDF version.

Pray for Your Pastor Image

The Most Important Thing You Can Do for Your Pastor


There is nothing more helpful to a pastor than having the men of the church praying for them regularly. Try at least one of these strategies to help your men lift up your pastor.

  • For their next "semester," ask all the small group leaders in your church to pray for your pastor whenever their groups meet. Send prayer requests to these leaders weekly to keep them engaged and informed.
  • Form a Pastor's Prayer Team of men to meet before the first service each Sunday for a time of prayer for the pastor and the services. Or, have men sign up for one service per year or per quarter to pray during the entire service for the pastor. (At First Baptist Church Atlanta there is a small room directly under the pulpit. During every service, men meet to pray for their pastor, Charles Stanley. Every time he preaches, he knows he is figuratively being held up by the prayers of his men.) Ask your pastor for prayer requests so that you can keep the prayer team updated.
  • Build a Pastor's Prayer Wall by having men sign up for different slots during the week when they will pray for their pastor. Assign 10-minute segments and get at least one man for every day. Depending on the size of your church, set a goal for the number of men you would like to have praying. Smaller churches may strive for three men each day; a large church may strive for a man for every waking hour of the week. Be sure to send a prayer email out to the men to remind them of their commitment.
  • Once a quarter or so, hold a Pray for the Pastor Sunday. Host a brief special prayer time after the worship service so that men can pray for your pastor(s). Invite men to walk up to the pastor that day and give him a token (such as a nickel) as a symbol that they are committed to praying for him each week.

Yours for changed lives,

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